Resistance to Change 

​"My partner can not change."
"Since we are not getting along now, how can I hope that we will do better in the future?"
"She hurt me. She deserves the same."
"It's not fair to have to try all by myself."
"We should both try - I see no reason why it's only me that should change."
"Only my way of thinking is right."
"There's no problem with me. If my partner changes, then everything will be fine."
"I had no problem in my life until I got married."

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