Are you a pursuer or a withdrawer?

Are you a pursuer or a withdrawer in your relationship?

When fighting with your partner, do you prefer to:
A - Ask for explanations, blame, push, overanalyse, criticise or
B - Retreat, shut down, walk away, avoid or find distraction?

If A, you are probably a pursuer. And I say “probably” because there is another type of pursuer, I will explain later.
​If B, then you are probably a withdrawer.

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